{"id":688,"date":"2013-06-19T14:38:02","date_gmt":"2013-06-19T13:38:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/?p=688"},"modified":"2020-06-06T02:54:01","modified_gmt":"2020-06-06T00:54:01","slug":"ne-pas-etre-son-propre-pere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/ne-pas-etre-son-propre-pere\/","title":{"rendered":"Ne pas \u00eatre son propre p\u00e8re"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\"><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-131\" src=\"http:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Psycho-01.jpg\" alt=\"Psycho 01\" width=\"96\" height=\"112\" \/>D<\/strong><\/span>ans la vie d\u2019un individu et quel que soit son sexe, le p\u00e8re est l\u2019image m\u00eame de l\u2019autorit\u00e9, de ce qui force ou qui pousse \u00e0 \u00eatre, faire ou dire. Entendez par-l\u00e0 que c\u2019est le p\u00e8re qui, d\u2019un point de vue psychologique, pousse un enfant m\u00e2le ou femelle \u00e0 <strong><em>se d\u00e9passer<\/em><\/strong> sans cesse. Et, bien \u00e9videmment, se faisant, il n\u2019est pas rare, qu\u2019un p\u00e8re soit exigeant, contraignant et un peu tyran sur les bords !<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\"><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-11277\" src=\"http:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/e\u0301volution2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"183\" height=\"105\" \/>L<\/strong><\/span>orsqu\u2019un individu n\u2019a pas eu de p\u00e8re, ou que ce dernier a plut\u00f4t brill\u00e9 par son absence, il a ensuite tendance, durant l\u2019age adulte, \u00e0 compenser cette carence en <em>devenant son propre p\u00e8re<\/em>, c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire en devenant exigeant, contraignant voire injuste, envers lui-m\u00eame.\u00a0 Cela produit une hyperactivit\u00e9 du Canal solaire (Pingala Nadi\/ cha\u00eene sympathique de droite, li\u00e9e au futur, au p\u00e8re et \u00e0 l\u2019activit\u00e9 mentale.) \u00c9videmment, cette hyperactivit\u00e9 s\u2019effectue au d\u00e9triment du Canal oppos\u00e9, celui par lequel se manifeste en nous les sentiments, les \u00e9motions et l\u2019intuition.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/chakra.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-689\" src=\"http:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/chakra.gif\" alt=\"chakra\" width=\"92\" height=\"141\" \/><\/a>D<\/strong><\/span>\u00e8s lors, l\u2019individu se retrouve d\u00e9s\u00e9quilibr\u00e9 durant un certain temps, incapable de spontan\u00e9it\u00e9, oblig\u00e9 de rationaliser toutes choses, m\u00eame celles qui touchent aux sentiments. La spontan\u00e9it\u00e9 (<em>Sahaj<\/em>, en sanskrit) est retrouv\u00e9e lorsque l\u2019individu r\u00e9alise ce qu\u2019il fait sans le savoir et qu\u2019il d\u00e9cide de se l\u00e2cher la grappe ! En effet, il lui reste a faire, avec lui-m\u00eame, ce qu\u2019il lui aurait normalement fallu faire avec son p\u00e8re : <em>lui demander de le laisser vivre un peu sa vie.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Cordialement \u00e0 tous les \u00ab <em>auto-p\u00e8res<\/em> \u00bb et surtout, pensez \u00e0 vous laisser souffler un peu, de temps \u00e0 autres !<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Serge Baccino<br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-nd\/3.0\/deed.fr\" rel=\"license\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-width: 0;\" src=\"http:\/\/i.creativecommons.org\/l\/by-nc-nd\/3.0\/88x31.png\" alt=\"Licence Creative Commons\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n(Note : Sauf pour les images, trouv\u00e9es sur le Web et r\u00e9put\u00e9es libres et gratuites)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dans la vie d\u2019un individu et quel que soit son sexe, le p\u00e8re est l\u2019image m\u00eame de l\u2019autorit\u00e9, de ce qui force ou qui pousse \u00e0 \u00eatre, faire ou dire. Entendez par-l\u00e0 que c\u2019est le p\u00e8re qui, d\u2019un point de vue psychologique, pousse un enfant m\u00e2le ou femelle \u00e0 se d\u00e9passer sans cesse. Et, bien &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/ne-pas-etre-son-propre-pere\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continuer la lecture de <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Ne pas \u00eatre son propre p\u00e8re<\/span>  <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2917],"tags":[4863,2031,5292,3546,5293,5289,4527,5291,2696,5285,2135,4270,138,4345,5284,5282,2001,902,5288,1949,5287,332,5286,5280,2427,5295,5281,1873,5279,3372,5290,3530,800,5283,5294,3015,457,3429,3485,2220,5296,1694,263],"class_list":["post-688","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-les-breves-de-la-psy-eso","tag-absence","tag-activite-mentale","tag-au-detriment","tag-brille","tag-canal-oppose","tag-canal-solaire","tag-carence","tag-chaine-sympathique","tag-compenser","tag-contraignant","tag-desequilibre","tag-droite","tag-emotions","tag-enfant","tag-exigeant","tag-femelle","tag-force","tag-futur","tag-hyperactivite","tag-individu","tag-injuste","tag-intuition","tag-lage-adulte","tag-lautorite","tag-letre","tag-laisser-vivre","tag-male","tag-nadi","tag-ne-pas-etre-son-propre-pere","tag-pere","tag-pingala","tag-pousse","tag-psychologique","tag-rare","tag-rationnaliser","tag-sahaj","tag-sanskrit","tag-se-depasser","tag-sentiments","tag-sexe","tag-souffler","tag-spontaneite","tag-tyran"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/688","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=688"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/688\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=688"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=688"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theb4.fr\/vivre-livres\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=688"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}